A tale of two trees

This post will tell you how the environment and your immediate surroundings have great impact on your growth and well being. Many times, we think that we are independent and we are not bothered about happenings in our surroundings. But this is not true, we are nurtured by our environment, friends, neighbors and surroundings. My office at Diamond district, Bangalore is almost 500 mts from the place where I park my car. I have to walk through a busy surrounding of offices, footpath vendors to my office.

Cassia tree opposite to a Wine shop
Cassia plant opposite to a tea stall

Recently BBMP or some local people, not sure has planted some saplings in the footpath. This is indeed a noble work. The green cover of Bangalore is depleting in a alarming rate and such initiatives in large scale would definitely help in bringing back lost glory of beautiful weather of Bangalore. I everyday cross two cassia sapling on my way. One of the cassia sapling was planted opposite to a wine shop- top left side plant and another cassia sapling was planted opposite to a tea stall where people from nearby offices come, spent time smoking, gossiping. In the beginning two plants were growing properly, and we quite healthy – for first 2 weeks. The plant opposite to tea stall is always poured with water, no litigation, grows properly. As you can see the plant opposite to wine shop, neither there are water and people also took out the remaining leafs. Some other day, some one has broken its branch. So the point is our growth and wellness is heavily influenced by our surroundings. Most people come to wine shop – an open bar are mostly daily workers, rickshaw pullers and I can see some time there are altercations, some people even out of sense lying in the footpath. They might have broke the plant, plucked leafs. Where as, the other tea stall has people from nearby offices, blue collar/ white collar executives. They understand the importance of a tree at current situation, that helps to pour some water and the plat grows. Similarly, One need to be with good people. That not only increases the effectiveness of your collaboration with your surroundings but your growth too. Collaboration is always two sided and equally participated by both. If you cannot take care of a poor plant why should you expect anything in return be it oxygen or shed from sun.

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How to be successful: stop these 7 things

How to be successful

I come across this post from linkedin. As an entrepreneur, we keep on doing things like to please others, keep following people, though they never care – These are just waste of time. We need to have our own way of doing things and we should not be a story of someone else’s pen. Let it be our pen to write our story.

I could not stop myself than adding all points in my blog.

7 things to STOP right now if you want to be SUCCESSFUL. Get that JOB and KEEP it ! 1. Stop being loyal to people who are not loyal to you.

2. Stop worrying what people think and say about you – hardest lesson to learn.

3. Stop trying to please everyone because you can’t.

4. Stop reacting and start responding” – Buddha – another hard lesson to learn !

5. Stop wasting time on people who do not care, there are so many who do – lost money can be found, lost time is lost forever !

6. Stop letting others dictate how you should live your life – “When writing the story of your life don’t let anyone else hold the pen” unknown

7. Stop doubting yourself. Don’t think you deserve the job ? Apply anyway. Don’t think you will do well on the interview – go to it anyway ! Don’t think the recruiter will respond to your email ? Send it anyway – do not self-reject. Failures do not kill dreams – doubts do.